A rewrite for "bondage" Pain is good, how is ithis.? "bondage"
You take me to places,
I anve never been.
Dark desires for my sin,
Levels I've not seen.
The dark side of love,
bondage is my game.
I fantasize back and forth,
to that very day.
I beld and carried on,
the dark sid of love.
Your rached soen in my heart,
and you took control.
I'd trust you with my life,
I've nothing to fear.
All my life i've looked for you,
So much for us to do.. |
| its perfect steve!! It makes me wanna feel the pain. Its very good. Xoxo |
Do some girls actually enjoy that intense sexual bondage? I don't mean normal bondage, I mean the type that involves pain, bleeding, candles, burns.. Throwing the girl around, bruising her.. etc. I've seen it around a lot lately on the internet. And i'm disgusted by it, personally. But i'm curious whether anyone actually enjoys it? |
YESSSSSSS
*sorry I screamed,I got excited* |
Is it true that people who were abused in the past wind up liking pain? I was watching the Tyra show and Sasha Grey, a porn star who's more into bondage and whatnot, was on there. Tyra said there's a study that says a big percent of people who have been abused end up enjoying pain later on in life. Is that true?
I was abused for 12 years of my life and am a bit fond of pain. I always thought it was weird considering my past. |
Some pewople who were abused end up liking pain, yes.
And some people who were abused end up NOT liking pain.
And some people who were not abused end up liking pain.
And there are even people who were not abused who end up not liking pain.
We have no decent statistics. We have very little statistics on kinky people, and we are getting very little more because universities grantmakers and others who control what is researched at a professional level don't want to be associated with it.
Sadly, in many countries, consensual adult play involving sado masocism is criminalized as well as defined as illness. There ARE efforts to remove cultural (often religious) rather than science based "diagnoses" from the Diagnostic Statistical Manual and the European equivilent f65. |
Looking for a tattoo than signifies decent into drink and drug addiction and mental health problems? please see above. I'm looking for a figurature piece that is bright and brash in colour (signifies fake life style and instant fix) that looks pretty but on closer looking is quite a disturbing picture ie. image of bondage pain trapped. Any help advice? |
A "Mans Ruin" tattoo would cover this area. It is usually highly personalized but traditionally has symbols of alcohol, of women, can have dice or cards to symbolize gambling etc. I'm working up one with a few of those elements as well as cigarettes, coffee and a row of "ones and zeros".
I would steer clear of something that is too obviously explaining the subject and choose something that can be more open to interpretation. A "mans Ruin" can be explained to someone who asks as "its just a classic tattoo design" instead of having to disclose a dark portion of your past. |
Can inserting dry ice into your vagina make you infertile? My boyfriend is into hardcore bondage and pain. Usually, we stick to rope, gags, and needles; however, he has a new fetish that involves placing chunks of dry ice inside my vagina. I haven't fully agreed to this yet. I told him I was going to do some research on the issue. Aside from potentially getting frost bite, can any other problems occur such as infertility? Thank you. |
| No. You will be fine, I can't forsee any way this would go wrong. Great post. |
Can inserting dry ice make you infertile? My boyfriend is into hardcore bondage and pain. Usually, we stick to rope, gags, and needles; however, he has a new fetish that involves placing chunks of dry ice inside my vagina. I haven't fully agreed to this yet. I told him I was going to do some research on the issue. Aside from potentially getting frost bite, can any other problems occur such as infertility? Thank you. |
Dry ice can burn skin, so placing inside your vagina will cause frost bite to both the vaginal wall and the cervix. I've seen a patient that tried this and her cervix was so bad it had to be surgicaly removed. As the ice starts to melt there is also potential for it toto move towards you uterus, and you don't want to go there. The area between the vagina and the anus is also very thin, so any damage could also cause fecal incontinence and also affect your urethra.
Many people explore sexual fantasys with water ice, and this is fine to use as it melts quickly and the body can cope with it. It can be fun to play with, but stay away from dry ice at all cost. |
Why isnt it considerd a mental illness to be gay? Really. Its a sexual perversion. If you like sex with animals, you're sick, if you like sex with guyren, you're sick; if you like sex with bondage or pain, you're sick; but if you like sex with someone the same gender as you, which is just as much a perversion of the natural order, its supposed to be socially acceptable? |
Rich F...your going to get a lot of grief for your question, Unfortunately a lot of this is due to peoples "programmed responses" to what has now been deemed socially acceptable and those that disagree are the one with a diorder..homophobia...lol it's really amazingly twisted.
However your original hypothesis is correct....
As a species we have 1 base function to reproduce & continue our blood line.
We as humans like to think that we are far superiour to the rest of the animals on the planet...but really we to are just an animal...just a perticularly smart one.
So as is the case any animal we have a need to breed. and therefore any intentional sexual activity/procreation which is knowingly incapable of producing offspring is correctly determined to be abborent sexual behavior.
Finally you will first here a number of responces about "love"...this is a matter of the heart and for philsophers...and does not hold water...because how can you define love...what if some one truly in their heart love a table and wish to have sexual relations with it...is it therefore ok?
p.s. to anyone who tries to counter/continue with the lie that homosexuality exsists in other species...no...no it doesnt...what exsists is Alpha domminance purley a superficial pyscological matter. there are not any attempts at coitus or penetration... |
Can using dry ice during sex prevent you from making a baby later in life? My bf has a fetish for pain (breast bondage, clamps, gags, needles, etc). This halloween we are having a party and we are serving "witches brew" which requires dry ice to make a creepy fog appear. This got my bf thinking and tomorrow afternoon after he picks up the dry ice (before the party) he wants to insert several pieces into my baby making region. Will this make me infertile later in life? |
dry ice burns like nothing else, you wont be able to take it especially in a sensitive area like your genetals...
that said, it's simply co2, harmless, aside from the freezing burn... |
Can a human choose how to react to every pain? Can we choose how to react to each and every pain we have? Do we even have the knowledge to do this? The foresight? Who here is human? Come on! I know your preachers have brainwashed you about this free choice, but come on. Lets get real! Use your heads! Release yourself from the programmed bondage of free choice and how you make mistakes consciously all the time, how none of them are caused by life's roller coaster ride! Give yourself a break. Give us a break that understand reality! Stop patting yourself on the back so much for all your successes when some others have not appeared to have your successes! Perhaps you were predestined to have these successes? Ever think of that? Luck? |
This is more than one question so here is more than one answer:
Can a human choose how to react to every pain? - no
Do we even have the knowledge to do this? - its not really an issue of knowlage, some reactions are faster than our ability to make conscious choices.
The foresight? - Even if one could predict everything that would happen in life you couldn't definatly control your own reaction to it.
Who here is human? - probably everyone, maybe with a few computer programs and (in my dreams) some experimental primates being taught to use the internet *swoon*.
Perhaps you were predestined to have these successes? - does it matter given we act as though we have choices - even if they are limited by our circumstances?
Ever think of that? - Sure.
Luck? - Luck is not a socially useful concept imho. |