How many women are into forced bondage...on men? I am wondering how many women out there would like the thought of having a man in forced/prolonged captivity for long periods of time such as weeks? Even if he had to be at work or else where, you can keep him to humiliate him. It could happen in the most unexpected times or the hardest times. |
It's an older study but probably still of similar percentages:
11% of men and 17% of women reported trying bondage (Lowe, 1983).
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What kind of man checks out naked men online, sometimes in bondage situations, and works very hard to hide it? What kind of a married man does this?
Claims to love his wife, but checks out naked men online,
sometimes in bondage situations?
And works exceptionally hard to hide it from his wife? |
| A highly sexually repressed kind of man. |
BONDAGE, men + women / opinion/help!? My boyfriend enjoys being submissive and he likes it when women in general be dominant. he enjoys bondage more than sex.
I know that he does not always receive his fulfillment during sexual intercourse with me because i enjoy being the submissive one.
which is OK, i would not judge him for his liking, but what bothered me was that i recently viewed his SENT MSGS and inbox on his email account.
i see him offering his email, full name, phone number, and even a photo of him! saying that he wants to meet up with them and have a 'fun bondage' time together.
it bothers me because
#1 it is SO recent (not even a month ago)
#2 providing his contact information with people on the web
i want to confront him but i am afraid because i dont want to get into any disputes with him. i also understand that i was also invading his privacy which is a big NO NO to him.
We even just had a talk yesterday about how he can open up more to me and just be honest about things and faithful.
i don't know what to do.
can someone please help me?
it's killing it inside ! |
My boyfriend and I are in the same situation, we both prefer the one to be tied up. There's only one solution... we switch roles and take turns. Saturday morning is our usual role play time. The other useful thing is to talk with each other, explain the other what you want and like, and what not.
Believe me, you don't want him to look elsewhere, for what he obviously want. |
Last weekend, he was on YouTube viewing naked men in bondage situations... why would a married man do this...? Why does he do this? Doesn't want her to leave his bed, but doesn't want anything to do with her sexually...?
What kind of man checks out naked men online,
but won't have sex w/ his wife for years?
What kind of man checks out naked men online,
sometimes in bondage situations, and works very
hard to hide it? AND, hasn't initiated sex in over 5 years?
Dislikes her touch, refuses her sexual advances, yet still
insists upon kissing each morning and after work each night?
What kind of a married man does this?
Doesn't want her to leave his bed, but doesn't want
anything to do with her sexually?
And yet, still claims that he loves her?
And, he will deny, deny, deny he ever does these things...
I just saw his history last weekend, where he was on
YouTube viewing naked men in bondage situations...
What kind of a man does this? |
| Well given those circumstances, a gay one or a cheating one. |
When will men release women from the chains of bondage? "Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women's movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage." -- Sheila Cronin, leader of N.O.W.
"Marriage has existed for the benefit of men, and has been a legally sanctioned method of control over women... We must work to destroy it. The end of the institution of marriage is a necessary condition for the liberation of women. Therefore it is important for us to encourage women to leave their husbands and not to live individually with men.... All of history must be rewritten in terms of oppression of women. We must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft.”
― The Declaration Of Feminism, 1971 |
| Mary, You're just unsatisfied because Women don't own society. You wouldn't be satisfied if everything WAS 100% equal for everyone, you just need to chill out and not try to control how others work. If women wanted to go your way then they would have. Women are very powerful, history has proven it. You and the rest of the Extra Militant male-haters are the only ones who want this. You want men in chains because you're sick and had a bad experience with a few. YOU chose those sh***y men, Don't take everything to the extreme and generalize ALL men and talk about how we're oppressing you and what not. Try being Black in L.A. |
Why do Japanese men get turned on with bondage and early teens? I know, I know, you can find these things all around the world, but you must agree that Japanese guys seem to have some special devotion for them. Like girls always seem to pretend they are young an innocent, while the guy is in some way "forcing" them to do what they want. It seems like a game and girls are usually portrayed as schoolgirls with no experience. Is it that their culture looks down on girls that are experienced and outgoing in intimate matters? |
| It's true... women are just starting to emerge in Japan as having a voice. It used to be very much looked down upon for a woman to even smile. Because certain things are prohibited it's only natural that that's what the people desire. |
What is the maximum time a men can stayed in spreadeagle bondage position .? i am planing to do it with my boyfriend. i guss ropes are not enough . chains and locks are good |
never ever leave a restrained person unsupervised.
check circulation, do not tie ropes too tight as they may cut off circulation. There are safe ways to create rope cuffs that won't get tighter (or looser) over time. Ropes would work great, i love ropes but chains and locks are probably 'easier' if you don't have the rope skills. some people prefer chain, some prefer leather. it's a personal taste...
as for how long? that does depend on the person, i've been restrained spread eagle for 22 hours however i did have some ability to move around, if the ropes are "taut' and muscles tend to lock up and cause cramps. if he is not limber ... if the ropes cut off ciculation etc.. many variables...
make sure he goes to the bathroom before starting and bring lots of ice cubes. |
How do I discuss bondage with my man? I am trying to get things spiced up in the bedroom department. My husband loves bondage, both ways. I would rather be the "dominator". No offense to my husband, but I don't really get off when I am the one tied down because he crosses the line from pleasurable to OUCH! It isn't very sexy to be directing my "dominator" on what feels good. Is this something I should address before sex, after sex, during sex?? Or should I just leave it be since he likes it? |
| You need to have an open discussion before you begin sex or bondage. Tell him what you don't like. If you wait until it's happening he will think it's part of the act. Maybe you can tell him something he hasn't done and you would like him to do. Likewise he can tell you things you can do to him that you don't now. Lay it all out on the table. |
Whether Success is having any destination? Thought mediation, one may study his true and realise he as spirit of freedom, spirit of unity, spirit of immortality. Live in truth by becoming truthful; love all, for love is unity, by reflecting upon thought. The man bondage may perpetuate slavery, Beware of lust, greed, anger passion hatred, jealousy and the unlimited wants of five senses. |
I'm not sure I understand the question, but having success does not mean you have a destination. I can be a successful person and be going no where in life and not have any goals.
I really enjoy the detail you wrote, it sounds like something you could find in a Tao Teh Ching book, I highly recommend you getting one, they're wonderful and I have a great feeling you'd like them. |
Women: What do you like done To you When You Are In BONDAGE With your Man? Women of course should only play with their most trusted lover boyfriend, or husband when they are playing bondage games in which they are really secured or locked down. Such as being tied to a chair or bed. With that said, what are some of the things women like to have done to them when they are in the "helpless" state. Tickling? Light electrical shocks, breast fondings, spankings, sex? |
| I love it when he buys me my favorite food. Cookie Dough Icecream, Oreos, Funyons, and Swedish Fish. Then, he feeds it to me when we are both naked. |